Friday, January 15, 2010

What makes some one a bad kisser, advice?




I want some serious advice not something really immature, and baby like don’t say I am to young to worry about kissing, because Im not so I will not give out my age, but I was just wondering how do you kiss like what do you do with your teeth ? What if your tongues collide? What if you don’t kiss “right”? Is there any way to practice? And what makes someone a “bad kisser';?What makes some one a bad kisser, advice?
TOP TIP: People kiss others in the way that they like to be kissed - so when you are kissed for the first time just relax and follow the lead of the person kissing you.





PRACTICE: on the part of your hand where your thumb joins your forefinger - if you curve your thumb slightly it makes a mouth shape. This obviously works for the initial closed mouth kissing but not with tongues.





Everyone worries about their first kiss but it is a very natural thing!





The main contact is between just lips (at first) and then as the kiss becomes deeper and more passionate, between tongues. Teeth naturally stay out of the way!! It's difficult to explain but you'll see when you have your first one!!





BAD KISSER: this is very personal. One man's ';too hard'; is another man's ';very passionate';. Main likely problems: too soft/limp/not passionate enough; too hard and agressive; too much saliva/too wet and sloppy; bad breath.What makes some one a bad kisser, advice?
Bad kisser - Feels like a washing machine.





Your tongues are supposed to ';collide'; - thats called ';passioniate kissing';.





Practice on the back of your hand.. No-one knows if they are a good kisser until their partner says ';WHOA'; or ';NO!';



best way to practice is on your arm! but how you kiss... can't really describe it... I would say its like ';sucking'; on an ice-cream cone like you have sensitive teeth... (cleaner that way)





hope this helps!!
Bad breath, and too much tongue. Not enough tongue is also a bad thing...hmm...it's a science really.
bad breath
Two things I can think of off hand which make someone a bad kisser: bad breath, and being too forceful, like trying to examine someone's throat with your tongue.





While I had done some serious kissing before, I really learned what to do with the whole teeth thing when I fell in love with a boy with braces. Basically, you don't get so close that your teeth are in the way, and if your mouth is open, then they are up and out of the way.





Your tongues kind of play with each other--you shouldn't have enough force in there for them to collide. If they collide, you are pushing too hard and need to back off a bit. It's hard to explain--it's like they are doing a little dance. It's like licking something gently, sort of.





Don't ignore the lips. Lips are underrated when kissing. You can very gently suck on the person's lips, or even use your teeth on them--but VERY gently, like tiny little nibbles.





There isn't a way to kiss wrong. There are only people who are inexperienced or too eager and forceful. Like anything else, practice makes perfect. One thing which is important is paying attention to what your partner is doing, and matching them. Keep is slow, gentle and soft.





I know people who practiced on their hands or arms, but the best practice is just with another person. Don't stress too much about it--if you aren't an experienced kisser, chances are the person you are kissing isn't, either. You can practice together, and get better together :)





And I will warn you about one thing which kind of freaked me out the first time, but which I got used to, because it happened with more than one guy. Be careful with braces--you can get your lips snagged in there. Also, for some reason, people with braces may like to run their tongues over your teeth. My first sweetie with braces did that, and when I finally asked him why, it was simply because he hadn't felt the smoothness of teeth in so long that he liked the way mine felt on his tongue. Don't let it freak you out if it happens to you. I have a friend who is married, and she told me her husband started doing that when he had to get braces a few years ago.





Good kissing is something you learn from practice, but it's also something which will come fairly naturally if you don't worry too much about it and pay attention to your partner. The only real advice I can give is to keep it varied to keep it interesting. If you're using tongues, come back out and just do lips for a while, and then go back to tongues. The main thing is to not stress about it. Stress is, I think, besides bad breath and pounding someone in the mouth, probably the the leading cause of ';bad'; kissing. You get tense, and think about it too much, and that's a mistake, because kissing is about emotion, not thought.





Hope that helps.

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