Why do people always give bad advice telling you to tell the person you like ';how you feel';?

If you tell a girl or guy how you feel about them doesn't that break the attraction, and make the situation awkward? Wouldn't it be more powerful if you two are sitting next to each other, and you have a silent moment leading to a kiss? If a moment like this doesn't arise chances are the other person doesn't feel romantically towards you.Why do people always give bad advice telling you to tell the person you like ';how you feel';?
Telling them how you feel is a risk. I don't think it's always bad advice. It kinda depends on the situation. Leaning in for an unexpected kiss is not too smart. Spend time with your crush and mutual feelings will manifest themselves if the feelings are in fact mutual. Kiss him/her before he/she is sure, you're out. Stay in their orbit while they discover how wonderful you are, and you can get a real relationship without actually declaring your feelings.Why do people always give bad advice telling you to tell the person you like ';how you feel';?
Agree with first poster. Everyone is different and it's not bad advise to tell someone how you feel, imo. I mean for example a person may feel like there is a connection and lean in for a kiss, while the other person may like the person but not 'like that,' so it leaves an awkward/creepy situation.





I think its best when ppl are honest and straight forward: no bull ya know? But i'm sure others prefer this 'romantic way.'





~chai
Never seek for any others advice when it comes to your relationships. You are the best judge of the situation. You should know when and how to reveal your inner feelings because you know the person better and of course you would know how the other person would react to it.
it really depends on the person. the romatic type will like what u said but many people prefer to be told straight out.





good luck!!





answer my question please:


its in my profile as '; Do You Think He Likes Me?';
so you honestly think your idea makes sense? Haha, I'd slap a guy who randomly kisses me.


Seems like you are the one who is awkward