im 19 and i want to have a baby. i have 2 part time jobs and my boyfriend has a really good job. i have wanted to have a baby since i was 17 when i got pregnant and lost it at 13 weeks. every time i see a baby or a pregnant girl i want to be that person. my cousin has a 2 yr old and a 7 month old and i baby sit them all the time and always want to take me. please give me your advice and be niceIm 19 and want a baby so bad advice please...?
I hate that everyone looks down on young moms. If you can really support and afford a baby and give them what they need to be healthy and happy and if your boyfriend wants one as badly as you, then go for it. Don't listen to everyone else. Do what you think is right. =)Im 19 and want a baby so bad advice please...?
Enjoy life there will be time later to be a parent.I know that this is not what you want to hear but just because your boyfriend has a good job does not mean he can support you and a child.there are bills to pay babies don't come cheap.Live life don't think about this till you are at least in your late 20's.There is so much more in life then becoming a parent enjoy your youth.
Diapers are very expensive and depending what you have(child)you will be buying them for at least two years.Don't just think about the joy they will bring to your life but also the expenses that will come with a child.
You shouldn't be worrying about having a baby right now you are way to young to even consider! maybe getting married first with a man that you kno will always be there for you %26amp; get a house after marriage live as a married couple to see if you can stand to live with one another! because if you end getting a divorce your child could be robbed of a happy childhood! people go into getting married or having children way to young and their kids start having problems because they saw there parents being fools their whole lives. please consider having a baby not till another couple of years!
If I were you, I'd wait until you are married.
How many years have you been with your boyfriend? You're still a bit young to be having kids, to be honest.
You guys should set up a permanent relationship, get your own place, and be able to take care of yourself and still have extra time and money for kids if you want to have them. Besides, don't you still have college and a life to establish?
I'm sorry, but you should wait. You really should, if you want to give that baby a healthy upbrining.
Well, first, think of Have you've done things you wanted to do?
Like traveling, have you really lived your life to the point where you want to settle down and actually have a baby. Yes babies are amazing but you have limitations when you have a child.
If you've really done all that stuff you've wanted to do and you have a good man then..your set.
i was 19 with my first dont get me wrong i love him more then life itself but it was very young and i still had lots to learn this is your choice and only u and your bf can make it. No one on here will be able to make this decision for u if u think u are ready and your bf is ready then u make up your minds about it and dont ask for advice because everyone has a different way of seeing these things . Do what u think is right and u will be fine in the end
Your maybe a bit young.
But it doesn't matter that you want a baby, but if you can take care of it.
And you shouldn't be asking for advice if you truly want a baby.
just think can you afford the baby and if you say you can then could u support it well enough to give them the best life you can?
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Listen, i'm your age and you might think you want a baby, but you should wait. I work at a daycare and while I love my job and the kids are great let me tell you it's hard work. And that's just part time! if you have a baby how are you going to work, and raise a kid? you cant, because you'd be paying a babysitter basically your whole check, or you'd end up being a stay at home mom.
there is nothing wrong with having kids, but baby's take a lot of work. its a 24/7 job. that means no more hanging out with friends whenever you want, no movies on a saturday night, no shopping trips to the mall. once your a mom, you aren't going to get much of a break for the next 18 years. Your best friend wants you to go out to eat with a bunch of friends, and hang out downtown? you cant, you have to watch the baby!
Its expensive, all the toys, baby food, clothes, crib, rocker, changing table, high chair, bottles, blankets, pacafciers, medical care.
Im really sorry you lost your baby. but i would wait if i was you. do you have any dreams or goals that you want? because that goes right out the window if you have a kid. your life wont be about you it will be all about the baby. anything you want, any freedom, anything else you want to do will be put on hold, until the baby is 18 and then it will be too late for you to do what you want. your youth will be gone
when your 19, you should be out, having fun, figuring out how to have your own life and what you want to do. not having kids. you have the next thirty years to have children, you only have RIGHT now to do ANYTHING with your life. Do have a dream job? you want to become a photographer? Do you want to travel? go to europe? california? do you want to go to college? do you want to move to NYC? you cant do any of that if you have kids young.
a lot of people who have children very young, regret that they were so young, they regret that they didn't take advantage of being young and free. its not that they regret their kids, but that you will never get these years back. is being a mom, and staying home for the next 18 years really what you want? is that the only thing you want to accomplish with your life?
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