Is it bad to ask your in laws advice about your marriage?

what type of questions can you ask your in laws about your marriageIs it bad to ask your in laws advice about your marriage?
Asking your Mother N Law how to cook one of her favorite recipes is about all you need to involve them in your marriage...In-Laws will Always take the sides of their children...Do not bring them into your marriage problems..you will regret it...Is it bad to ask your in laws advice about your marriage?
Questions pertaining to their child otherwise they could use your questions against you. None of us when marrying into another family is or ever will be good enough for their child according to the in laws so you really dont want to show them right by asking questions which they may deem stupid and ignorant, although they may seem harmless to you at the time. dont give them any ammo that they can use against you later. Marriages are hard enough so you dont need in laws looking for any excuse to put you down. Hope this makes sense
I don't think it's a bad thing, they've known your mate longer then you have and have obviously held on to their marriage for so long, they SHOULD understand any question you would want to ask them. But it also depends on their personalities. Like liberal personalities may be best, Conservative is maybe a no no. My mom wouldn't mind answering anything at all my man asked her, but my dad would rather keep off the subject all together about pretty much anything and everything. Just make sure they're easy going people and I don't think you should have a problem.
It's best to get advice from trusted friends, family members, pastor or counselors. In-laws are usually the cause of break ups not help. It could be different if you have a close relationship with them, but could put you in a bad position as well.
dont you mean the outlaws? If they are not the outlaws now, someday they will be. Chances are they are already judging you way too harshly for not being good enough for their son/daughter, It would not be wise to give them more ammo for down the road. Also think of the trust you may injure between you and your spouse.. just a thought, but many of us here at ANSWERS are pretty nonjudgemental. You just have to read between the lines.
yes. your marriage is not anyones business but you and your husbands. i would only seek advice from an unbiased person, such as a counselor or professional in regards to my marriage.
Yes it is. You really don't know how much trouble you can stir up do you? Go to a friend or your church or something never get the in-laws in it.
Definitely dont ask them anything! They will always be biased! Find a friend to ask - anything but the inlaws.
yes, no questions are good because they will make assumptions you have no control over, and that could create more problems. they will also feel invited to meddle.
I wouldn't. It will just make them noisy, and try to interfere in your marriage. I would ask a minister or friends.
Don`t make that mistake. They can become very involved in your personal life, cause major upheaval and divorce. Go see a counselor if you need one.
It all depends on who they are. I would go to my mother-in-law before I would go to my own mom with relationship issues. I love my mother-in-law; she's awesome!!
Asking in laws anything is horrible all around.
I wouldn't ask your parents or your inlaws any questions. They will hold it against you later.
The fewer people in your relationship, the better
Yes it is bad, your marriage is between you and your spouse.....DO NOT bring in your parents or the in-laws! spells T R O U B L E!
In the end they will always take the side of your spouse. There are some things that they just should not know.
NOTHING! It is none of their business. Just ask my hubby on the mistakes he has made asking for sister for advice!!!!
keep it between you and your husband. it is no one elses buissness
I wouldn't...don't you have some friends, or your own family to ask?